Sunday, December 30, 2018

The space between

The stretch of days between Christmas and New Years are such a gift.
Although I was actually working on Thurs and Fri this week, I did so from home and it was all fine.
This week was a blur of lounging in comfy clothes, hanging out with Sioned (Nain and Taid left on Thurs), watching TV, snacking, and generally just having license to slouch and do whatever. We did make sure to get outside to take Winnie on walks a couple times a day, but otherwise it was a gorgeous blur of days.



Today we went to the Gregory's house for an afternoon walk and dinner. They had invited another family to join as well, and we had a great time meeting new people. The kids all got along fabulously and we left late at night, but New Year's Eve is tomorrow so we should get used to staying up late anyway.

Tuesday, December 25, 2018

More Christmas





Christmas Day

The kids are still kids and so woke at 5:30 am to go down and open their stockings.
They started banging pots and pans to get us awake around 8, and thus the day began. Rhiannon and Sioned were just taking cinnamon rolls out of the oven when we stumbled downstairs to brew some coffee and we had a lovely start to the day opening stockings and marveling at all the presents! We sat down to open presents properly around 9:30 and then took a break for breakfast at 10. The experimental 'savory bread and butter pudding' that we concocted last night went down a treat this morning. Result!

We headed out for a walk around 11:30 and took the scenic route down to the Coach and Horses which was open 12-2. We stayed nearly that whole time and enjoyed visiting with friends and neighbors in the sunshine of the garden. Our friends Grace and Sharon even rode their own horses here along with some other riders, so with all the people, dogs, horses, sunshine and beverages it was a wonderful place to be! 





We walked home and put the oven on, then started cooking dinner so that we could eat around 6 pm. It all worked out pretty well and required amazingly minimal effort somehow to prepare, so that was pretty good too! After dinner we watched the movie 'Nativity' and talked on the phone to family members from afar, then cleaned up and called it a day. I think we all had a really good day actually. There were no big crazy presents, no high drama, no meltdowns, no real shockers - instead we had some very thoughtful gifts, good food, some lovely beverages and generally enjoyed each other's company. 

Monday, December 24, 2018

Christmas Eve

Another relaxing day of walks in the forest, lounging around the house, and a bit of shopping.  In the evening we had chocolate chip chili for dinner and then had our own little pub quiz.




Sioned, Taid and I were "Steel" against Rhodri, Tryfan, Nain and Rhiannon who were the "Clapham Junction Thunderbolts", and "Steel" won by a narrow but crucial margin!

Sunday, December 23, 2018

Start of Christmas

We had a leisurely day today and went for a nice walk in the forest.

 Then later this afternoon Nain and Taid arrived!

Saturday, December 22, 2018

Into the big city

Today we ventured into the big city of London for the afternoon and evening.

We first headed to Covent Garden so we could visit Stanford's map shop before they move premises next month. We read an article about this place in the FT Weekend some months ago. It has been here 117 years and was bombed during WW2 but survived because the top floor was so tightly packed with maps the fire didn't destroy the whole building. It is the place where Sir Ernest Shackleton and Robert Scott went to plan their expeditions. It felt appropriate that we went to this place with all of Rhodri's work, so we took the #38 bus from Victoria and then walked through the streets until we found it.


After Stanfords, we did some other shopping and then stopped for warm drinks and cakes in a little cafe. 
 Then we walked over to Carnaby Street to see the lights and visit the Queen (the band, not the person) exhibit especially for Tryfan.
 Then we went to Kulu Kulu Sushi for some conveyor belt sushi. We found that the best place to sit is 'upstream' and close to the kitchen. We had a great meal there and it was so fun to get here exactly at 5 pm just as they were starting up the conveyor belt! By the time we left there was a queue out the door.
After dinner we walked for a bit and then hopped on bus #38 again to get back to Victoria so we could arrive in good time for the 7:30 pm performance of Wicked.
 None of us had seen it, but since it is the prequel to the Wizard of Oz, it seemed appropriate that we should see it. Plus the Apollo Victoria is literally next to Victoria Station, so it meant a very easy commute home after the show finished. The show itself was amazing and we were so impressed!
So it was a long day in the end, but since Sioned had taken Winnie to go visit friends a few hours away and we had nothing else planned, it seemed like the right thing to do. I'm so glad we did. We never go into London and today/tonight was so clear and beautiful with all the festive lights and everything. It was really a great outing.

Thursday, December 20, 2018

Auntie Sions!

Back in town from her year in Washington DC
She is so excited to reunite with her precious Winnie dog. I wasn't there for the reunion, but I bet Winnie was pretty excited to see Sioned too.

Sunday, December 16, 2018

Sunday morning and a Spud Club birthday

I baked some pastries for the girls in the morning, then took Winnie on a walk. It was a gorgeous morning with the mist rising from the earth and exuding out of the pine trees.

After the Danehill posse cleared out around midday, the Spud Club came over to celebrate Rhiannon's birthday from 2 to 6 pm. We sent them straight out to the tipi which Rhodri and I had set up on Friday afternoon and then strung up the lights to make it cozy inside for today.

There was a LOT of laughter coming from the tipi and it was so nice to hear. When they finally came inside, Tryfan had laid the table with Christmas crackers to make it special for them.
Eventually this party finished and it was Sunday night, time to get ready for the last few days of school before the Christmas holidays.

Saturday, December 15, 2018

Brighton birthday shopping

This morning Emma and I took the 'Danehill posse' to Brighton to go shopping for the day.
Too bad it was ridiculously bad weather, with fierce wind and rain lashing us as we walked from the station into town. But it was fine really. The important thing is that the girls enjoyed being together.

In reality, it was an absolute nightmare getting them all onto the train and get their sleepover stuff and birthday presents into the car for later. I don't know what I would have done on my own! Thank goodness that Emma was there to help.


We took the 15:23 train to HHE and then waited for Rhodri to meet us and help transport us back to the house. When it was all over and everyone was safely back to our house, Emma and I snuck off to have a cheeky glass of mulled wine and a couple bowls of chips at the Red Lion. NICE.

Friday, December 14, 2018

Tree Lighting Party in the Gate

This is my favorite evening of the whole year. Seriously.
I just absolutely love this event. These are the ingredients, although each year is different and unpredictable...: (1) at least one song that the audience is invited to sing but the words are not available to read; (2) an act that just goes on way longer than it should to the point of being unbearably dull; (3) heart-touching beauty in the form of a surprising act or moment. Tears always come to my eyes at some point in the evening, either from feeling the Christmas spirit in a piercing moment of purity or from laughing so hard that I'm about to burst.

The event started at 6:30 pm in the village hall with the bar open from the little kitchen and all donations from the whole evening going towards the peanut ward at the East Grinstead hospital. The Fishlock family runs the night and they serve their homemade cider which is lovely but dangerous! Other drinks available too, of course, and so everyone bought some beverages and then found a place to sit or stand so the evening could start. The MC ('Mr Fish') welcomed everyone and we all sang a Christmas Carol to kick things off. Then there was the traditional moment of uncertainty as we prepared to turn the Christmas tree lights on: do we stay inside and just peer out the windows to see the lights come on, or do we all go outside and gather round the tree to have the lights come on?
This year it was the latter (as it normally is) and so with everyone moaning about how they only just sat down and took their coats off to get comfortably settled into the evening, they huffingly put their coats back on and shuffle as a crowd outside to the dark muddy grass round the tree. The lights got switched on, and everyone sang 'O Christmas Tree'. The kids (having now been turned loose outside with their friends) immediately started running around in the dark muddy grass and playing tag, hide-n-seek, and all those types of games before they got ushered back under control. So after this one song (which, by the way, had the lyrics printed out in the programs although it was too dark to actually read the writing) everyone filed back to their seats so the entertainment could continue. The small kids always sit on the floor in front, and for some reason the crowd this year was particular vocal and confident in their comments and even heckling! Poor Mr Fish really struggled to manage this surly crowd.  Next up was the Danehill Handbell Ringers with their decades-old piece of cardboard that provides the music for them to read from.
Then next came Danehill School performing some pieces which they hadn't practiced before (since Mr Waters has left the school to become a proper teacher, they have really suffered on the fun, musical energy side). Fair play to Susie for rallying everyone to even get up there in the first place tonight. The only bummer was that they sang 'Jingle Bells' which we had only just finished singing with the Handbell Ringers, and actually the night would also feature a 3rd repetition of the song as well later in the program! Anyway, the evening is not the same without a school performance so it had to be done.
There were a few other acts in the first half of the night, including an impromptu performance of 'The northern lights of Aberdeen' sung by some visiting relatives of a family in the village who had traveled down from Scotland for the holidays; a solo a-capella performance of some song I've never heard of (which was quite brave); and then a couple of songs by Mr Fish himself. Finally it was intermission and a chance to refill the glasses. Unfortunately a lot of the audience took advantage of the break to make their escape entirely, which was noticeable once the intermission was over and the hall was suddenly quite empty! Anyway, during the intermission one of the kids went up to Mr Fish and volunteered to perform an act with 5 other boys but didn't say what they were going to perform. So Mr Fish invited these 6 mystery boys to the front and Tryfan was among them! They all stood in a line at the front looking thick and thieves and I'm sure I wasn't alone in expecting them to bust out a raunchy toilet-humor song... but instead we got this:
And although the evening continued for awhile after this, it was this performance which was my favorite of the program. I'm just glad that Emma encouraged me to film it before I knew what I was filming! Anyway, it was a great evening and then I walked down to the Coach with Anne Marie for a 'farewell to Macha' event. 

Tuesday, December 11, 2018

A very pheasant experience

Steve our neighbor gave us a brace of pheasants the other day, so this evening we got into them (literally). Rhodri and I each took one and got the meat out of it, then somehow Rhiannon ended up dissecting the heart of one of them as part of an ad-hoc science lesson from Rhodri. Tryfan, in the meantime, was happy to be making gingerbread cookies. Good times in the Lewis house on a Tuesday evening!

Monday, December 10, 2018

And now we have a teenager

Today Rhiannon turned 13 and we tried to make it as special of a send off into teenage-hood as we could. She got to open some presents this morning and have toast in our bed, then after school Sophie came over and they went to yoga together, then came home to have risotto for dinner. 

Our dear girl at this tender age is extremely thoughtful and deliberate about what she does and how she spends her time. She has amazing observational skills and is able to articulate her feelings and perceptions into clear words which is inspiring to both Rhodri and me. She loves music and is excited to finally be able to have an Instagram account. She is very creative and resourceful, and she has a fabulous laugh which is often heard these days, especially when she is with her "Spud Club" friends from Uckfield. She works hard at school and her favorite sport is netball. She can be properly moody and sulky, but as my Dad once said about someone else at the time, that is her job at this age! Anyway, she is a lovely person with a very kind, compassionate demeanor and we are so grateful to have her in our lives. Happy Birthday, Rhiannon.

Sunday, December 09, 2018

A Sunday Walk

Just a gorgeous day out in the Ashdown Forest with my girl on her last day of being 12 years old.

Saturday, December 08, 2018

Christmas tree goes up

We got our Christmas Tree today from the Carters down the road. They are the ones we normally go to, and this year was just as easy as it has been in the past. It is a little bit early to be getting the tree going, but with Rhiannon's birthday in a couple of days it just seemed the right thing to do.

We had a few squabbles while decorating it, but it turned out fine. Tryfan had the idea of winding the flashy lights around the trunk of the tree and then keeping the solid lights for the outer parts of the branches. This seemed to work out pretty well actually.

Here is a little video of the scene as we all got into the holiday spirit. Our favorite kick off music is the CD called "It's snowing all over the world" which I got from World Market about 15 years ago. One of the songs from it is featured in this little video...

Thursday, December 06, 2018

Tim (Rufus)

I found out that my long lost friend from high school was visiting London just now, so I made contact and we found a way to get together! I picked him up last night from Haywards Heath station and he stayed the night with us, then we got to hang out a little bit in the morning before he had to leave again.

His real name is Tim but I used to call him Rufus and he called me Flossy. We were partners in crime in our little covert gang called 'Florence's morning joggers' at Prin...  Now Tim/Rufus lives in Alaska and runs an Alien Species Removal business (as in species of plants, not any other kind!).